Welcome to My Reflection on Life

This is my quiet space to write through life’s questions — on healing, philosophy, and being human.

If it’s meant to be, it will be. But only if you try.

— Ash

Featured Reflection

If It’s Meant to Be, It Will Be — A story from childhood that planted a quiet truth. One that still guides me.

  • What You Consume Is Who You Become

    What You Consume Is Who You Become

    What You Consume Becomes You You wake up tired. Not physically — but mentally bloated.You ate well. Slept fine. But there’s still a fog.Not in your body — in your mind.What you consume is who you become.We hear this about food — calories, nutrients, balance, junk.But rarely do we extend that same awareness to what…

  • If It’s Meant to Be, It Will Be | A True Story of Letting Go

    If It’s Meant to Be, It Will Be | A True Story of Letting Go

    When I was around seven years old, I experienced something simple that planted a quiet truth in me — one that has stayed ever since: if it’s meant to be, it will be. I didn’t know it at the time, but a lost bicycle key would become the beginning of a personal philosophy I still…

  • Why We Want Control — and Never Truly Have It

    Why We Want Control — and Never Truly Have It

    There’s a quiet tension that follows us through life — the need to hold things together. To predict. To prepare. To protect. We build plans, cling to routines, and map out futures with the hope that we can bend life to our will.But beneath all that effort, we rarely stop to ask why we want…

  • Why I Started This Blog

    Why I Started This Blog

    Why I started this blog has everything to do with needing space to think and feel. For years, I carried thoughts that never made it to paper. Ideas would rise during quiet moments — while walking alone, watching the sky, or even mid-conversation. However, I didn’t give them a home. Eventually, I realized that I…